Cuntress- WAY worse than calling a girl cunt.
Its like a lioness or princess. Ultimate.
I finally found my “title” in the BDSM world. Well atleast the Femdom part. As a sub, does my name change?(I wonder) I am not really grasping this submissive role….not completely but I will!
See, if I want to be the domme that I could, should, would be I must first play the role of the submissive. A “subbie”. Give complete control over to someone and trust that the outcome, despite the activity assigned will leave me feeling satisfied. By “satisfied” I assume the feeling is one of knowing I pleased the domme and can follow instructions…like a good girl…*heavy sigh*
Now I tend to be what you would call in the biz a smartass or a bit of a bastard. It can’t be helped in my everyday life, I don’t think. Not until atleast I am well into my thirties and realize that wise cracks aren’t cute. Or polite.
But I am not submitting to ones demands for etiquette lessons. No. I read that if you want to truly be a great dominatrix you should (just a suggestion, not a must) train first as a submissive. This didn’t make any sense to me at first and I ignored this while learning about the world of female domination and worshipping (Goddess shit).
BUT it does make perfect sense to me now!
As a trained and experienced sub I will develop and/or discover my limits and what is enjoyable about the domme/sub relationship. This point of view will help me as a future domme (full on, not Switch or anything) understand how to be not just a great, but effective domme as opposed to just a big bitch. I’ll abuse and humiliate with purpose instead of just taking a shot in the dark with the first mean name I come up with and hoping the interaction is one of insulting proportions. As a former sub I will know what to say for whatever situation and the feeling that is suppose to arise from any instruction I may give. Ya know, not just being mean to be mean, jellybean!
Goal: Being a jerk on the level of CUNTRESS
And so I bid you happy harnesses and ball gags!
If you happen to be a somme bitch. Train me over on Sinfulcall!